I was asked recently why I chose the name 50 Shades of Peter Pan.
One of the big reasons for Peter Pan is because of this photo of my favorite scene in the movie. Where Peter asks Wendy Darling to come with him to Never Never Land (excuse if the retell of the scene isn’t perfect I am going off 20+ years of memory).
What I love about this scene is he is bringing her to a whole new world to explore. When it comes to sex I feel the same way with my partners and potential partners. In the movie Wendy agrees to take Peter’s hand and follow him because of 2 major factors, she is intrigued and feels safe/trust. In my experience, all my past and current partners have said the same thing about me. They were all intrigued about my views on sex and felt safe with me in that I would never harm them.
I want to go on record saying that I am very grateful for such, as I am able to explore the boundaries of sex all while learning more about myself and my partner. I am fortunate to have been able to help others expand their sexual experience from some never thinking they would enjoy anal to some never having thought they would have gone to an orgy.
I shall dub myself the Sexual Peter Pan (minus the tights).
