Dave Chappelle Love Contract

Back in early 2004(I know because of Wikipedia not memory) watching an episode of the Chappelle Show,ย  a skit caught my interest due to the humor and also the genius behind it. Watch below.   After watching the episode it had me thinking how can I get aย  clear picture of all the things my […]

Be A Self Focused Lover Not Selfish

I was listening to a podcast episode “Does Being Selfish In Bed Make Sex Better?” by the Pleasure Mechanics. The part that struck a cord with me was when they mentioned the difference between being selfish and  self focused. Sexually Selfish: Focuses only on own pleasure, without regard to partnerโ€™s experience or feelings Sexually Self Focused: […]